Natalie Massenet, 46, is the founder of Net-A-Porter, the hugely successful luxury fashion retail website. She later founded the high fashion discount site The Outnet and Mr Porter, a fashion site for men. She was appointed MBE in 2009 for services to the fashion industry.
What was your earliest ambition?
To be a photojournalist.
Public school or state school? University or straight into work?
I attended private Catholic schools in Paris and Los Angeles through high school. I graduated from the University of California, Los Angeles, with an English literature degree and travelled for a year before going to work.
Who was or still is your mentor?
I don’t have a mentor in the strict definition. I take as much advice and inspiration as I can from the people I am close to. Sometimes, though, I ask myself: “How would Audrey Hepburn handle this?”
How physically fit are you?
I don’t work out but generally I am fit, which is why I don’t work out.
Ambition or talent: which matters more to success?
Ambition is important. Of course you can’t get anywhere without talent, but there are a lot of talented people. To succeed you have to be the most ambitious talented person.
How politically committed are you?
I vote. I have donated money to campaigns. And I have been known to take to the street in protest. But I am more committed to my immediate politics than general politics.
Do you consider your carbon footprint?
Not as much as I should.
Do you have more than one home?
What would you like to own that you don’t currently possess?
I have a dream house in mind in upstate NY. And a waffle maker.
What’s your biggest extravagance?
Sleep. Not answering emails on the weekends. Ignoring voicemails.
I am only unhappy at 30,000ft in a plane.
What ambitions do you still have?
To be a great mom to my daughters. To make a movie. To learn to cook like Tom Aikens. To learn to be happy at 30,000ft in a plane.
What drives you on?
What is the greatest achievement of your life so far?
My relationship with my daughters. And the stuff I am still learning that I hope to share with them one day.
What has been your greatest disappointment?
I don’t like to dwell on that. But all of my disappointments I am responsible for. I was pretty shocked when my cousin Tom told me there was no Santa Claus.
If your 20-year-old self could see you now, what would she think?
“I like you.”
If you lost everything tomorrow, what would you do?
There are some things in “everything” that, if I lost them, would make it impossible to go on. But if it’s just the material stuff – home, work, possessions – then I would thank God the rest was still there and start over.
Do you believe in assisted suicide?
Do you believe in an afterlife?
Yes. And a before life.
If you had to rate your satisfaction with your life so far, out of 10, what would you score?
9.5 (there’s a joke from When Harry Met Sally in there…).