When Mary Finnegan, 27, and her sister Meg, 22, left their Brooklyn apartment to return to their parents’ home in March, they took enough clothes to last two weeks.

Their stay stretched into months. “It was like a return to homeschooling: no boys, no play dates, nowhere to go, except home and the liquor store,” Mary told the Financial Times.

As the coronavirus pandemic worsened and universities closed, Mary and Meg were followed by three other siblings, turning the parental four-bedroom house in Washington, New Jersey, into a “food hall, a bakery and a gym”, according to their mother Lori.

The Finnegans are among the millions of young adults around the world who have moved back in with their parents since Covid-19 struck. In the US, the share of 18- to 29-year-olds living at home is the highest ever recorded.

While they are less at risk of developing severe forms of Covid-19, students and young workers are suffering from the pandemic’s economic fallout more harshly than other groups, data show. The pandemic has also amplified previous trends including low wages, stagnant job markets and rising student debt.

A global survey by the Financial Times, to which more than 800 16- to 30-year-olds responded, shows that these difficulties are translating into growing resentment towards older generations, which are both better off and holding greater political sway.

“We are not in this together, millennials have to take the brunt of the sacrifice in the situation,” said Polina R, 30, from Montreal, Canada. “If you won’t watch out that we don’t end up jobless and poorer, why should we protect you?”

Here is what they told the FT about their experiences during the pandemic:

‘I feel I am worthless’

Komal Kadam, who lives in Maharashtra, India, and Juyeon Lee, from Daegu in South Korea, have both found it difficult to find jobs amid dwindling vacancies

Since graduating in August, 25-year-old Juyeon Lee from Daegu, South Korea, has submitted dozens of job applications. Although she has had a few interviews, she has grown rattled by the dwindling number of vacancies.

“I don’t want to get infected because if I do, job hunting would be harder . . . I feel I am worthless and I would never get proper work even though I was a confident graduate when I had interviews,” she said.

Those aged 25 and under are 2.5 times more likely to be without a job because of the pandemic than the 26-64 age group, according to the OECD. Studies have also shown that graduating during a recession can have a scarring effect on wages.

Line chart of of 18- to 29-year-olds in US living with parents showing Hotel of Mom and Dad

Among those still working, almost half reported a reduction in income, with young women and those in lower paid jobs the hardest hit, according to the OECD and the International Labour Organization. Many who wrote to the FT said they had to abandon business plans and dip into their savings.

In the developing world, unemployment often means no longer being able to support multiple generations of dependants: Komal Kadam, 28, from Maharashtra, India, was the only one in the family who earned money until she lost her job in March.

“I am scared of everything . . . Can I get a new job? How will I pay my loans? [There are] lots of things on my mind,” she said.

‘I refuse to stop enjoying life’

Toader Mateoc from the US and Juan from Colombia have seen attitudes to lockdown vary hugely

Many surveyed by the FT said they were afraid of catching or transmitting the virus, but others admitted to a more nonchalant attitude — a behaviour that has been criticised by political leaders as one reason for a resurgence of the pandemic in Europe and the US after the summer.

During the peak of the lockdown in the spring, Polina from Montreal had friends over. “I did not follow recommendations,” she said. “I travelled out of the country twice and have gone to bars, restaurants and theatres a dozen times.

“My risk tolerance is high and I refuse to stop enjoying life when no one has a plan and the people in power have no skin in the game.”

Chart showing that although Covid-19 is not as deadly for them, young people have made up a growing share of Covid-19 hospital patients
Chart showing percent of adults in two age groups who agree or disagree with the comment "I feel like things in my country are out of control right now". Responses in countries such as Spain, US and UK show a high proportion in both age groups agreeing - nearly 80%. But in many countries the proportion of adults aged 18-34 agreeing with the statement is slightly higher than the proprtion of adults aged over 35

In many places, notably the US but also in Europe and south Asia, many respondents pointed out that it was often older people who defied public health regulations.

“Older generations believe whatever the internet tells them. They are misguided by WhatsApp forwards and YouTube videos,” Ajitha, 28, from Chennai, India, noted.

In their own words

“I did break rules. I went on several dates with a girl I met during this period. I don’t know what was scarier, my mom finding out I was meeting other people and exposing everyone or the fear of getting caught by the police”

Juan, 25, Colombia

“Everybody's attitude reminds me of drivers' attitudes on the highway: everybody faster than me is crazy, while everybody slower than me is an imbecile”

Toader Mateoc, 28, US

“Pivoting on a dime just as I had been getting acquainted with the ‘real world’ was a bit jarring”

Marco Angelo Felizardo, 22, Philippines

‘We are all being blamed for a crisis in leadership’

A protest over education costs in Edinburgh and a message projected on a building protesting against President Jair Bolsonaro’s decision not to lock down Sao Paulo

Many respondents said they were losing faith in their leaders and felt that the pandemic had been poorly handled — with the exception of some Europeans and respondents from parts of Asia.

“We are all being blamed for a crisis in leadership,” Anthony, 23, from Annecy, France, told the FT.

From his kitchen table-cum-office in Sao Paulo, Brazil, Danilo Ventura, 29, has watched his country cycle through three different health ministers since the start of the pandemic. “The world was saying A and Brazilian politics were screaming Z,” he said.

That lack of direction took a toll: Brazil has the second-worst death toll in the world after the US. Danilo and his wife quarantined following the regional government’s instructions, even though the country’s populist president Jair Bolsonaro attended crowded events.

A chart showing the % satisfied with democracy by age and generational cohort that shows successive generations have lower faith in democracy than the previous generation - and it generally deteriorates with age. Millenials (born 1981-1996) have the lowest faith in democracy, with less than half satisfied with democracy

Trust in government among young people has declined across the developed world since 2016, according to the OECD. “Their confidence in public institutions and their perception of having political influence and representation in decision-making have stalled,” said Elsa Pilichowski, who runs the OECD’s Directorate of Public Governance.

In the US and the UK, in particular, many told the FT that they felt the government had been inconsistent and slow to act.

“The airports were opened too long. The messaging on masks was disgraceful. I never got one until mid-June,” said John, 28, from Glasgow, Scotland. “My perception is that, shy of America, we really are handling this terribly.”

The pandemic has deepened political disenchantment, according to Naumi Haque, senior vice-president of research at Ipsos. “Gen Z and millennials are more likely to feel like things in their country are out of control right now than older generations,” he said.

‘A lot of very difficult, intense feelings’

Mary Finnegan was one of several respondents who pointed to the mental health impact of lockdown, with anxiety over education and getting a job adding to the burden

Many contacted the FT saying they had entertained thoughts of harming themselves. “Unemployment, mental health difficulties, and uncertainty about when this will all end make for a pretty despairing outlook,” James, 30, from London, said. “At one point I was considering suicide,” he added.

Public health specialists have warned that the mental health impact of the pandemic will outlast the virus, as millions cope with depression, anxiety and isolation. Studies conducted in the UK and the US showed that those aged 18 to 29 experienced higher level of distress compared to other age groups during this period.

Back in New Jersey, five of the 10 Finnegan children have started going to therapy since the pandemic began. “Someone had a breakdown about once a week,” Mary said.

Dot plot showing youth concerns during Covid

María Rodríguez, 25, originally from Spain but living in Krakow, Poland, said she decided to risk getting Covid-19 rather than falling into depression because of isolation.

“I am not afraid of going to cafés and [meeting] multiple people since I won’t get my family sick,” she said. “I chose my mental health over Covid.”

In May, Ola Demkowicz, a lecturer in psychology of education at Manchester university, surveyed hundreds of teenagers in the UK. Many of them described experiencing “a lot of very difficult, intense feelings” as they adapted to the uncertainty in their lives. “For those with existing mental health difficulties this appears to have been really quite a challenge,” she said.

In their own words

“I was very strict when living at home with my older parents. Now, after becoming an alcoholic nun for six months, I will risk Covid for a chance to go on a date again”

Mary Finnegan, 27, US

“You face hours of Zoom university every day, a devalued degree at full freight, diminished job prospects, fear for your elder relatives, and fewer (if any) chances to see your friends or make new ones. It’s enough to make anyone a little nihilistic”

Will, 23, US

“Teacher expectations have risen exponentially and everything I do has to be several times better than usual, for the examiners suspect and expect foul play. The pressure’s been steadily rising in the past six months, but I hope that when everything settles down, so will the stress”

Alistair Woo, 16, Hong Kong

“Young people are hustlers, every youth out there wants to be better but this pandemic ruined things, restricted movements, schools were shut down, some businesses crashed”

Victoria Chidiebere, 22, Nigeria

‘A door to many new horizons’

Alistair Woo, left, points to rising expectations from teachers, while Victoria Chidiebere says that the pandemic has halted young people’s natural entrepreneurship

Several respondents, however, said that the pandemic had allowed them to reconnect with their families and nature, as well as tick things off their bucket list.

Joshua, 26, from the UK, said that one morning in August he packed his car and headed for Spain, leaving behind a small flat and a toxic office environment.

“I now spend less than a third of my salary on a three-bedroom apartment by the sea to myself. A couple of friends have visited but I’m mostly living the socially distant bachelor life,” he said. 

In February, researchers from Thailand observed a group of college students in Wuhan, China, where the virus originated, to find out how they were coping with the lockdown. They found that several them were reacting with resilience.

Dr Demkowicz found similar evidence in the UK: the first lockdown provided teenagers with the opportunity to decide how to structure their day freed from social obligations and schoolwork, she said: “They could . . . explore what they wanted out of life and kind of find ways to grow and develop and re-evaluate what directions they were taking.”

In the FT survey, Anders Furze, 30, from Albury, Australia, said he had realised that he was burning the candle at both ends before the pandemic: “I was out five nights a week: having dinners, attending film screenings, theatre shows.”

He recently gave his career a rethink and enrolled in a postgraduate law degree. “It feels like it is opening up a door to many new horizons,” he said.

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